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Finding Love in the Big Smoke

Article by Victoria Cochrane

As a new year has started and Valentine’s Day about to rear its head, many single Londoners will no doubt feel a sense of despair about their own love-lives. The nation’s capital is the biggest city in Europe, affording countless of opportunities to meet someone special. However, many London singletons feel overwhelmed with the different possibilities and don’t know where to start.Meeting somebody on a night out is a well-established way of meeting someone new. However, while such an approach isn’t always the easiest method for everyone – we aren’t all blessed with the gift of the gab – there are countless self-help books and other resources available for those who feel their social skills are a bit lacking. For example, Neil Strauss, author of bestseller ‘The Game’, a memoir of his two years as a professional Pick-Up Artist, or PUA, recently released a second book entitled ‘Rules of the Game’, a how-to book for men wanting to meet women, which in turn had women’s magazines across the globe picking apart the techniques in their book review sections. With many Londoners living busy lives, speed dating has gained considerable popularity. Speed dating involves groups of men and women rotating to meet each other on a series of short “dates”, usually lasting around five minutes each. After everyone has met each potential partner the participants submit a list of who they would like to provide with their contact information to the organisers. As a rule, contact information can’t be exchanged during the initial meeting, in order to remove the pressure – mainly on the women – to reject or accept a suitor to his face. Though it might seem like an unromantic way to go on a first date, supporters argue that it saves time, as most people will realise if they are romantically compatible with someone relatively quickly.Although online dating was once seen as something of a taboo, nowadays millions of people around the world are using specific sites as well as social networking communities to meet other potential partners. If it’s been a while since you’ve been in the dating game, or if you feel you’re too reserved to meet someone on a night out, using dating sites can be a great way to meet new people and get to know them better before actually going out on a date. It also takes the pressure off making a great first impression.Ultimately, regardless of how you decide to try meet new people, to avoid spending next Valentine’s Day alone, the important thing to remember is to keep trying

Analyzing The Women’s Body Language

Article by Vin Dicarlo

Do you wish girls to like you?

…And I don’t mean, ‘like friends’, because we know what that really means. What I mean about is if want women interested in texting you…Or if you want that one girl to keep herself up all night thinking of you for a change…

Maybe you want to look attractive in her eyes, or maybe you to be in the next higher level and not just stick with the “friend zone, or you just want your ex back once and for all…

I’m sure you have a great reason why you’re searching the internet to figure out how to talk to girls so that they want you way more than they’ve ever wanted another guy. You are in the right track in getting a woman you want if you’re already reading this article!

Make Girls Wants You

Here’s an important fact…

A study has shown that 90% of communication is non-verbal. In less fancy terms, it means that body language is WAY more important than the words you say. Take note that women also pays attention to what your actions or body movements are doing.

The woman are aware on how you stand… The way you move. When you smile… How you look at her eyes… And even more stuff.

And it’s not just with women… Think about it.

Let say two men have the same promotion… And both have same credentials. One walks around with his shoulders back and his chest out, and always looks like he’s relaxed and he knows what he’s doing…

The other although he was amazing in his job but always has a fear in whatever he does. The first guy is definitely going to get the promotion, because of his confident body language. …But I’m not talking about promotion here, I’m talking about getting a girlfriend. Althought it is a bit tricky but still it is important to have confident body language, if you want women to wants you. Confident guys know how to carry and stay cool in any kind of situation. Watch the actors in movies, as they can be a model of confidence. Like Bratt Pitt and john Travolta. See how they move and imitate it yourself. Millions of dollars are being paid to these actors just to confident on cameras and big screen – that’s why they were best chosen.

…Practically every woman wants a man with confident and that is a good reason why it is important

What Body Language Drives Women Crazy?

Now, taking some notes from the movie stars is a great place to start… But keeping your body language attractive gets tricky for most guys… Because nothing works every time.

Here’s an example…

Putting an arm around a woman at just the right time is awesome. There will be a faster and stronger bonding between the two of you if you do it in the right way.

…Which is great, because that means she’s already falling for you. Just like that.

…But this is tricky, because ‘the right time’ to do this is different for every girl.

If a girl is the type to say she “loves a guy who isn’t afraid to make the first move” is going to want you to put your arm around her the first chance you get.

…Wrapping the arm around the shy girl in too early is not applicable. And if she thinks you’re too touchy-feely too early, she might get uncomfortable…

I will have to tell you this, all you bonding invested will get sucks if that things happens. Understanding that all women are not the same will help you solve the problem. So the kind of body language that really drives one girl crazy, might completely turn another girl off. Would you a cute nurse and sexy stripper will have the same kind of guy to like? Of course not. It’s a way too far.

…Doesn’t matter if you’re in the “friend zone”…

…Even if she broke up with you…

She will surely fall for you, once you know how to treat her since you will have the idea of what type of girl she is! The good news is that it is easier to know what a woman wants, no matter who she is. It sounds having a sense that many different kind of women are attracted to different men with different qualities.

…But I found out some new ideas that will change your perception about that. It was not my intention to read about dating tips when I found it… I was reading a journal when I read about how women look at men. A team of corrupt scientists found a secret “loophole” in the female mind…

They actually proved that there are only 8 different ways that women can look at men! I was shocked to know that I uncoveredthe biggest secrets in dating industry!

So I looked up their other studies on the female mind, and found some more juicy secrets…

You can get the women obsessed to you without too much hard work, as long as you know which type of a girl she is. And here’s the best part..

Know what type of a women she is by asking three innocent questions. I have studied all of their finding and tested it to myself. And I’ve got into a date, if not MORE with every woman I’ve used their technique on. The only problem is that they head this awesome information in academic journals that only professors read…

And they wrote it in boring, super-scientific Ivy League lingo. I have perceive that many men like you needs this information badly, so here’s what i did. I broke down the most important discoveries they made and put them in simple, everyday language that people like you and I use…

And I stuck it in this interesting video you’re going to love.

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Why is christianity not yet a perfect religion

Article by Oswalo U. Chikere

THE IRONY OF CHRISTIANITY By Oswalo U. Chikere

Understanding Christianity has been a perennial problem since the death of Jesus Christ. Despite the fact that many Christians, Christian scholars, and Christian theologians might not agree to this, it is the truth. The problem of Christianity is not in its definition or as a service to God (man’s function to God) but it is as a service to mankind. This is because Jesus Christ (the believed son of God) didn’t directly teach how man should behave to his fellow man (whether woman or man)… I do not dispute that Jesus taught who God is, the expectations of man to God, and, indirectly, man’s service to man. This write-up is not for the purpose of arguing whether Jesus Christ directly taught man service to man or to analyze the lapses of Jesus Christ (if there were), but to elaborating the expectations of Christianity.

Research has proved that Christianity came into existence at Antioch where the disciples/apostles of Jesus Christ were called Christians (Christ like). Since certain religions existed before Christianity, some during it, and others still existing, therefore, it’s not my call to debate on when Christianity originated, even when Acts of the Apostles of the Holy Bible (a book containing the teachings, history, and expectations of God) recorded the word Christian was first used in Antioch. Despite the uncertainty of this fact, one thing is certain and it is that Christianity is the religion of God, taught by Jesus Christ. Therefore, a Christian can be defined as anybody who believes in Christianity. And, ‘Christianity is the religion based on the teachings and works of Jesus Christ’-Oxford Dictionary Ovi.

Though millions have studied or are studying Christianity in schools (especially in the university); some claim to have been called by God, to have seen the light, etc. it does not mean that they have come to meet God, or know God more than us (they claim some of us have not seen the light), or God has explained Christianity to them…. Today, when I look at individuals or group of individuals who claims to be messengers of God (Evangelists, Pastors, Reverend Fathers, Elders, Apostles, Knights, Deacons, Imams, etc.), I weep for them because they are ignorant yet do not no they are ignorant (according to Socrates).

Brethren, be not deceived, God has not given any man an exclusive/unique understanding of Christianity/the Bible, or individual or collective metaphysical powers, or whatever they might be calling it, rather He (through Jesus Christ) urges man to go into the world, make disciples in His name, baptizing them in the name of the father, the son, and the Holy Spirit, and commanding them to observe all Jesus taught in his time on earth. In doing this, God did not give power to anybody, or classify man into messengers and followers, or urged man to complete the statement they feel Jesus didn’t complete or make statement Jesus didn’t make or removing from statement Jesus made or interpreting statements in the way Jesus Christ didn’t. (Anybody who has received Christ and is baptized can perform the function of recruiting souls for God)Whether a pastor, evangelist, reverend, deacon, deaconess, elder, chorister in church (no matter the church), cleaner in church, new member, floor member (someone not holding any post), or not a Christian, we are all one and equal in the sight of God. If you didn’t know, know today that God created all of us (human beings) as part of a tree (Himself), therefore, we are all important and complement to each other (no one can survive without the other). Paul in the Bible explained this when he said no gift of the spirit is better than the other, and the church is like the different part of the body; without the hand or leg or head or brain, etc. the body (the church) will not function well. Even this song tells moreWe are Heirs of the Father,We are Jointed to the Son,We are Children of the Kingdom,We are Family,We are OneMany individuals and group of individuals have selfishly made themselves messengers of God, and are ignorantly winning ignorant souls for the devil. It is true, and let me remind you, that Jesus warned against false witnesses, false prophets, false jesus’, etc. but I’m not sure he expected it to be this much.The religion of Christ is suppose to be a monist religion (a total believe and worship in/of God, and God alone). Today’s Christianity for many people and in many places are now impure (mixed), no longer pure (primary, whole, or undiluted), and this is not Christianity (don’t be deceived). Mixed in the sense that things have started to determine, give reasons and condition how Christianity is to be followed; some of these factors include- environment, friends, over consciousness, over zealousness, individual goals, temptations, pride, and mostly education (especially the tertiary education).

I was at a seminar one day where genotype and marriage was the topic for discussion. I, must, confess that the B.A. Medicine, and B.A. Psychologists who were invited to deal with the topic did justice to it, not until they mentioned ‘if your genotype and that of your relationship partner is screaming disaster, run for your lives’ (though not directly or at the same time).

One might ask (mostly the educated ones), what is wrong with it? Isn’t it right?… Or even exclaim yes! That’s true! Correct!…. The truth remains that it was not a religious statement to make. (Another might ask, but it wasn’t in a religious concept, was it?). The problem of not understanding Christianity originates from classifying the world into moral and religious departments which God (the creator) didn’t classify. Education has turned the world up-side-down, yes, because it has and is opening the eyes of human beings (especially those who can’t hold to their faith); in fact, permit me to say that the tree God didn’t want Adam and Eve to eat from is education.(Back to the story) So, if I were SS and my right woman were SS also, what should I do? After searching till I became 50, do I continue searching? What if I don’t find another? What if I’ve become too familiar with her that I can’t let go? What if we’ve sworn to our love? Since everybody is running from me, what do I do? The answer the scientist might give to you is find someone AA. What if I don’t find? What if the one I found is scared of risking/ruining his one/last opportunity? Another might say, and then go for some with SS. If I went for SS would there be any joy knowing that my children might die? Or that my wife might die during delivery? and so on. After thinking of all these, I might end up not getting married, committing suicide, living a reserved and private life, etc. I must tell you that so many people (might not have been an SS example- may be HIV, AIDS, one form of disability, etc. you know them, so tell yourself, and ask yourself how you would feel if it were you) have chosen between either of the three alternatives, especially suicide. Hearing it from a doctor, friend, lecturer/teacher, etc. might not kill them but from a messenger of God/spiritual adviser (Imam, Pastor, etc.) will… yet they still preach love your neighbours as yourself, help others, don’t kill, etc. when themselves are partaking in killing. Answering or attempting to answer some of the above questions will enlighten you more on how discrimination, rejection, suicide, hate, anger, the motive for suicide bombing, robbery, etc. came into existence. What is most annoying (to me) is when these scholars tell you God is responsible for showing them this light. Or that if God were God, why wouldn’t he attend to the cry of this people? or even make them like that at first?

Ask yourself questions like; if it were me or someone I love, how would I/they feel? If we finish categorizing the world, how would it look like? Do we really love ourselves? Is God completely in charge? Is this really Christianity?, etc. Before this educational light came into existence or in the early days of Christianity, people didn’t need to know their genotypes before they marry, seek metaphysical answers to questions, look at the disability of one before employing him, or look at the success rate before making one a friend and half brother, etc. The indirect message of Jesus to mankind (to me) is ‘love’ (love not measurable, conditioned, or fostered by certain criteria). And for this love to exist, or we (Christians or non-Christians) to possess the type of love Jesus preached, we need to allow humility (the act of having or showing a modest or low estimate of one’s own importance) possess us, but this can happen only when we totally empty ourselves and allow the Holy Spirit to enter in to us. When this happens, Christianity would truly be defined, and effective because we would love ourselves, we would have completely eliminated any room for negativity, like-the criticizing of the Christian religion, discrimination, rejection, class distinction, pride, we would have become one perfect religion, united ourselves, and pursuing after one goal with one religion, one preacher, one road, and possibly one messenger of God at a time.

Anyone who cannot follow you to your church,Who criticizes(d) the doctrines or believes of your church, Who cannot help/assist you in times of needWho does not understand, trust, believe, etc. in you or your ability, Who attends a different church from you,Who is proud,Whose interpretation of the Bible is different from yours,Whose prayer pattern,Whose mission you don’t understand,Who cannot forsake his position or possession for,Who does not see you as a friend and brother, Who does not take advice, Who backbites, quarrels, fights, boasts, etc. is not a child of God, not a Christian… period! His either not a believer of any faith or a believer of another religion; maybe money religion, business religion, education religion, science religion, medicine religion, etc lol

The earlier we stop, generally, distinguishing between Christians and non-Christians, the better for us, our Christian race, and the more we will be winning souls for God, love our brothers, and making the world to become one (a better place, and a heaven on earth). We can only be different in the ways we pray, we talk, we do our things… but we are the same in the sight of the gods we believe in; in fact, we are doing the same work of God but with His different attribute (as in, idol worshippers worshipping the omnipresence of God, seers worshipping the future-telling nature of God, etc. by this, I can infer that the different religions worships one God, but with His different attributes/characteristics).Be not deceived my friend, religion (no matter the type; Islamic, Christian, Buddhist, etc) is like a military parade ground; where every soldier is in the same uniform, dressed in the same pattern, with the same arms, responding to one commandant, replying in the same tone and format, and parading/matching uniformly. Whether a Buddhist, Muslim, Jew, Christian, Traditional worshipper or whatever religion, believe wholly on your god, the teachings of your god, and let no reason or development be responsible for making you condition, deviate, or determine how you serve your god.

About the Author

Founder of the The Exclusive Service Organization; an organization that is only engaged with COUNSELLING, SECURITY, AND COMPUTER WORKS. He is moltivational and educational writer who has published books, and still have many un-published write ups in store.Also, he is a singular achiever who had held and is still holding leadership positions in some reputable companies and organization (both in religious and ordinary), soundly counselled and adviced individauls and companies to positivity, accepted and positive touched lives, etc. He is a growing philosopher, still a youth, and from a catholic responsible family.

For enquiry, sponsorship, counselling or interest purposes, he can be contacted on 2348064008844 or theexclusiveserviceorganization@hotmail.com

Womens Fashions: Buying The Right Trousers

Article by Ima Johnson

When it comes to buying trousers, women can find the task extremely daunting, there are so many considerations to take account of, that it is easy to become overwhelmed. Some questions that all women need to ask themselves when buying women

Consult Natural Gender Selection To Predetermine Your Ba Gender

Article by Girlorboy4u

“After years of Barbie Dolls I am now getting to play soccer with our third.”- Lior, Israel, 10 Aug, 2010

Predetermining your baby gender that is to conceive a boy or girl is very exciting and there are loads of reasons why families decide to go for natural gender selection. At times, a family having number of boys may desire to conceive a girl or even vice versa. Astonishingly some families want to control gender selection predetermining their babies’ gender just to avoid some genetic disorders. Regardless of the reasons, to conceive a boy or girl the would-be mom and her family need to get educated about the technique. And Michal confirms the technique is 100% natural whereas it is absolutely very easy for any couple to implement.

The process to conceive a boy or girl backed with most comprehensive resources helps families to determine baby gender in a remarkable way. For couples interested in raising the odds having children of predetermined particular baby gender they would love to meet Michal for the solutions. Initially being skeptical, people meet success after giving Michal a try. The lists of satisfied clients are increasing rhythmically. No matter the time zone you’re located or religion you belong, the success in behind gender selection is just a click away. The more concerned people become about the technique the more smiles adorn the aspiring lips. Come, contact Michal and she will guide you through the techniques of gender selection – you need to worry a less. The method used by Michal has some simple steps to follow…

The Egg Cycle Method

Based on the experiences compiled over generations and evened up with different parameters Michal worked on this method. Using the help of computer matrix the author prepares a simple questionnaire. The mom-to-be wishing to go with the process of natural gender selection needs to fill out the questionnaire with perfect information. Any wrong info will divert the calculation. Finally, the result is based on timing. In order to conceive a girl or boy this method relies the summary – at the time of ovulation egg decides which sperm with the girl chromosome (X) or with the boy chromosome (Y) to fertilize. Some other parameters like a specific time of women’s cycle also work to determine baby’s gender. So in point of getting pregnant Michal will instruct you when to conceive as per the dates you mentioned in the questionnaire. This Egg Cycle Method relies only on timing – “My extraordinary discover does not rely on diet, posture, frequency of sex, the effect of acidity and sperm separation, only on timing.” Michal confirms.

So simple features it has that you will only be asked to fill in an organized information questionnaire correctly. Once all of the provided information gathered, they are put into Michal’s method to check whether the applicant suits this technique of gender selection. If the process goes green for you, a detailed instruction containing the dates when you can conceive will reach you in order to determine baby gender. In case failure meets you conceiving, you can mail Michal the exact date of your menstrual cycle so that she will give you the new dates for the following month. Some months may reveal lower percentage rate so it would be better to skip the month and wait for the next cycle.

About the Author

Want a girl? Want a boy? Now it’s possible! A newborn sex determination. Desire to determine the sex of the newborn. For more information about Gender selection, Natural gender selection, Determine baby gender, Holy Land gender selection, Predetermine baby’s sex, please visit: www.girlorboy4u.com .

Dating Tips For Men – Re-Program How You Think About Dating Women

Most men are taught to have an over romanticized view on dating and women. They are taught to think of women as being delicate flowers that you should place high on a pedestal. They are taught to do things like buy her flowers and chocolates and jewelry, and that these things will make them appear to be the classic Prince Charming that all women have been waiting for.

Well, to put it mildly, that is a load of bunk!

While I don’t think that men should become the kind of jerk that treats women like dirt, I also don’t think that most men need to continue to believe in these “fairy tales” of dating and romance. Anyone that has any dating experience knows that the nice guys that do all of the “right” things are usually the ones that get looked over and passed up.

YOU NEED TO REPROGRAM HOW YOU THINK ABOUT DATING WOMEN…

Guys that are successful when it comes to dating women learn that to be the classic nice guy, you will end up getting walked over or just turning out to be her friend and nothing more. Why? Because all of these things, buying her things, they are forms of manipulation and they are also just examples of trying to “buy” her love.

Well, that’s just not the way that it works. Women respond to what makes them feel attraction, not the things and the gestures that shows that you are trying too hard to make a good impression.

You need to reprogram your mind to see dating for what it really is. A chance to have some fun, go out with a woman, and THEN see what happens.

WIN HER OVER THE NATURAL WAY FIRST…

If you win her over the natural way, by having that chemistry and that attraction, and then you have a relationship- that is the time when you can go ahead and buy her things or do special out of the way kind of gestures. Until then, you need to focus more on building attraction with her.

Want to get more advanced dating tips for men and discover how to naturally attract women?

Click Here to Get Your FREE Report on How to Approach, Attract, and Seduce ANY Woman You DESIRE…

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The Do’s and Don’ts when Dating Women

Dating women can be great fun if you go in with the right attitude.  Have self-confidence and show her a great time. Keep conversation light and show her you are a romance guy.  Make her feel special and like she is the only woman in the room.

Finding the right woman for you can involve dating a lot of women before you find the one.  Here a few do’s and don’ts to remember when dating women, and to increase the chance of your date being successful.

DO: Charm her with your humor.  Give her a laugh, entertain her and make her date an enjoyable one.

DON’T: Laugh at your own jokes.  Yes you may be funny, but laughing at your own jokes can be very off putting.  Smile and show you are pleased she is finding you amusing, and make sure the smile is with your eyes too.

DO: Treat her like a lady.  Pulling out her chair and taking her coat may be old fashioned, but they are still very romantic when dating women of today.  Women do like to have equal rights, but you should think of these gestures as good manners.  Opening her car door for her is also a nice touch.  If you see slight blushes then your date is going great.

DON’T: Disrespect her.  Many women hold feminist views, and treating her like a dainty creature that cannot hold an intellectual conversation will not go down well.

DO: Offer to pay.  Don’t insist; simply ask whether she is happy for you to cover the bill for the date.  Even the fiercest feminists are happy to be spoilt from time to time. She might offer to pay for the second date, and allow her to do so.

DON’T: Tell her stories about your past girlfriends and conquests during your college years.  There is no need to discuss other women, and if she prompts you answer but change the subject to her.  Make her feel like she is the only woman you can think about right now.  Make the night about you and her.

DO: Ask questions.  When dating women it is important to show you want to get to know them as a person, and not only get them into bed.  Find out about what she does, likes and what she desires.

Try these simple rules when dating women and you should come away with a woman who adores you.

The Irony of Christianity

Article by Oswalo U. Chikere

THE IRONY OF CHRISTIANITY By Oswalo U. Chikere

Understanding Christianity has been a perennial problem since the death of Jesus Christ. Despite the fact that many Christians, Christian scholars, and Christian theologians might not agree to this, it is the truth. The problem of Christianity is not in its definition or as a service to God (man’s function to God) but it is as a service to mankind. This is because Jesus Christ (the believed son of God) didn’t directly teach how man should behave to his fellow man (whether woman or man)… I do not dispute that Jesus taught who God is, the expectations of man to God, and, indirectly, man’s service to man. This write-up is not for the purpose of arguing whether Jesus Christ directly taught man service to man or to analyze the lapses of Jesus Christ (if there were), but to elaborating the expectations of Christianity.

Research has proved that Christianity came into existence at Antioch where the disciples/apostles of Jesus Christ were called Christians (Christ like). Since certain religions existed before Christianity, some during it, and others still existing, therefore, it’s not my call to debate on when Christianity originated, even when Acts of the Apostles of the Holy Bible (a book containing the teachings, history, and expectations of God) recorded the word Christian was first used in Antioch. Despite the uncertainty of this fact, one thing is certain and it is that Christianity is the religion of God, taught by Jesus Christ. Therefore, a Christian can be defined as anybody who believes in Christianity. And, ‘Christianity is the religion based on the teachings and works of Jesus Christ’-Oxford Dictionary Ovi.

Though millions have studied or are studying Christianity in schools (especially in the university); some claim to have been called by God, to have seen the light, etc. it does not mean that they have come to meet God, or know God more than us (they claim some of us have not seen the light), or God has explained Christianity to them…. Today, when I look at individuals or group of individuals who claims to be messengers of God (Evangelists, Pastors, Reverend Fathers, Elders, Apostles, Knights, Deacons, Imams, etc.), I weep for them because they are ignorant yet do not no they are ignorant (according to Socrates).

Brethren, be not deceived, God has not given any man an exclusive/unique understanding of Christianity/the Bible, or individual or collective metaphysical powers, or whatever they might be calling it, rather He (through Jesus Christ) urges man to go into the world, make disciples in His name, baptizing them in the name of the father, the son, and the Holy Spirit, and commanding them to observe all Jesus taught in his time on earth. In doing this, God did not give power to anybody, or classify man into messengers and followers, or urged man to complete the statement they feel Jesus didn’t complete or make statement Jesus didn’t make or removing from statement Jesus made or interpreting statements in the way Jesus Christ didn’t. (Anybody who has received Christ and is baptized can perform the function of recruiting souls for God)Whether a pastor, evangelist, reverend, deacon, deaconess, elder, chorister in church (no matter the church), cleaner in church, new member, floor member (someone not holding any post), or not a Christian, we are all one and equal in the sight of God. If you didn’t know, know today that God created all of us (human beings) as part of a tree (Himself), therefore, we are all important and complement to each other (no one can survive without the other). Paul in the Bible explained this when he said no gift of the spirit is better than the other, and the church is like the different part of the body; without the hand or leg or head or brain, etc. the body (the church) will not function well. Even this song tells moreWe are Heirs of the Father,We are Jointed to the Son,We are Children of the Kingdom,We are Family,We are OneMany individuals and group of individuals have selfishly made themselves messengers of God, and are ignorantly winning ignorant souls for the devil. It is true, and let me remind you, that Jesus warned against false witnesses, false prophets, false jesus’, etc. but I’m not sure he expected it to be this much.The religion of Christ is suppose to be a monist religion (a total believe and worship in/of God, and God alone). Today’s Christianity for many people and in many places are now impure (mixed), no longer pure (primary, whole, or undiluted), and this is not Christianity (don’t be deceived). Mixed in the sense that things have started to determine, give reasons and condition how Christianity is to be followed; some of these factors include- environment, friends, over consciousness, over zealousness, individual goals, temptations, pride, and mostly education (especially the tertiary education).

I was at a seminar one day where genotype and marriage was the topic for discussion. I, must, confess that the B.A. Medicine, and B.A. Psychologists who were invited to deal with the topic did justice to it, not until they mentioned ‘if your genotype and that of your relationship partner is screaming disaster, run for your lives’ (though not directly or at the same time).

One might ask (mostly the educated ones), what is wrong with it? Isn’t it right?… Or even exclaim yes! That’s true! Correct!…. The truth remains that it was not a religious statement to make. (Another might ask, but it wasn’t in a religious concept, was it?). The problem of not understanding Christianity originates from classifying the world into moral and religious departments which God (the creator) didn’t classify. Education has turned the world up-side-down, yes, because it has and is opening the eyes of human beings (especially those who can’t hold to their faith); in fact, permit me to say that the tree God didn’t want Adam and Eve to eat from is education.(Back to the story) So, if I were SS and my right woman were SS also, what should I do? After searching till I became 50, do I continue searching? What if I don’t find another? What if I’ve become too familiar with her that I can’t let go? What if we’ve sworn to our love? Since everybody is running from me, what do I do? The answer the scientist might give to you is find someone AA. What if I don’t find? What if the one I found is scared of risking/ruining his one/last opportunity? Another might say, and then go for some with SS. If I went for SS would there be any joy knowing that my children might die? Or that my wife might die during delivery? and so on. After thinking of all these, I might end up not getting married, committing suicide, living a reserved and private life, etc. I must tell you that so many people (might not have been an SS example- may be HIV, AIDS, one form of disability, etc. you know them, so tell yourself, and ask yourself how you would feel if it were you) have chosen between either of the three alternatives, especially suicide. Hearing it from a doctor, friend, lecturer/teacher, etc. might not kill them but from a messenger of God/spiritual adviser (Imam, Pastor, etc.) will… yet they still preach love your neighbours as yourself, help others, don’t kill, etc. when themselves are partaking in killing. Answering or attempting to answer some of the above questions will enlighten you more on how discrimination, rejection, suicide, hate, anger, the motive for suicide bombing, robbery, etc. came into existence. What is most annoying (to me) is when these scholars tell you God is responsible for showing them this light. Or that if God were God, why wouldn’t he attend to the cry of this people? or even make them like that at first?

Ask yourself questions like; if it were me or someone I love, how would I/they feel? If we finish categorizing the world, how would it look like? Do we really love ourselves? Is God completely in charge? Is this really Christianity?, etc. Before this educational light came into existence or in the early days of Christianity, people didn’t need to know their genotypes before they marry, seek metaphysical answers to questions, look at the disability of one before employing him, or look at the success rate before making one a friend and half brother, etc. The indirect message of Jesus to mankind (to me) is ‘love’ (love not measurable, conditioned, or fostered by certain criteria). And for this love to exist, or we (Christians or non-Christians) to possess the type of love Jesus preached, we need to allow humility (the act of having or showing a modest or low estimate of one’s own importance) possess us, but this can happen only when we totally empty ourselves and allow the Holy Spirit to enter in to us. When this happens, Christianity would truly be defined, and effective because we would love ourselves, we would have completely eliminated any room for negativity, like-the criticizing of the Christian religion, discrimination, rejection, class distinction, pride, we would have become one perfect religion, united ourselves, and pursuing after one goal with one religion, one preacher, one road, and possibly one messenger of God at a time.

Anyone who cannot follow you to your church,Who criticizes(d) the doctrines or believes of your church, Who cannot help/assist you in times of needWho does not understand, trust, believe, etc. in you or your ability, Who attends a different church from you,Who is proud,Whose interpretation of the Bible is different from yours,Whose prayer pattern,Whose mission you don’t understand,Who cannot forsake his position or possession for,Who does not see you as a friend and brother, Who does not take advice, Who backbites, quarrels, fights, boasts, etc. is not a child of God, not a Christian… period! His either not a believer of any faith or a believer of another religion; maybe money religion, business religion, education religion, science religion, medicine religion, etc lol

The earlier we stop, generally, distinguishing between Christians and non-Christians, the better for us, our Christian race, and the more we will be winning souls for God, love our brothers, and making the world to become one (a better place, and a heaven on earth). We can only be different in the ways we pray, we talk, we do our things… but we are the same in the sight of the gods we believe in; in fact, we are doing the same work of God but with His different attribute (as in, idol worshippers worshipping the omnipresence of God, seers worshipping the future-telling nature of God, etc. by this, I can infer that the different religions worships one God, but with His different attributes/characteristics).Be not deceived my friend, religion (no matter the type; Islamic, Christian, Buddhist, etc) is like a military parade ground; where every soldier is in the same uniform, dressed in the same pattern, with the same arms, responding to one commandant, replying in the same tone and format, and parading/matching uniformly. Whether a Buddhist, Muslim, Jew, Christian, Traditional worshipper or whatever religion, believe wholly on your god, the teachings of your god, and let no reason or development be responsible for making you condition, deviate, or determine how you serve your god.

About the Author

Founder of the The Exclusive Service Organization; an organization that is only engaged with COUNSELLING, SECURITY, AND COMPUTER WORKS. He is moltivational and educational writer who has published books, and still have many un-published write ups in store.Also, he is a singular achiever who had held and is still holding leadership positions in some reputable companies and organization (both in religious and ordinary), soundly counselled and adviced individauls and companies to positivity, accepted and positive touched lives, etc. He is a growing philosopher, still a youth, and from a catholic responsible family.

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Most Successful Dating Advice for Women

When it comes to relationships, it seems like everyone has dating advice for women. From friends and family to a woman’s ex-boyfriend or ex-husband, it would appear that just about anyone you can think of is be ready to advise the single women on how to do well on a date. So who has the most successful dating tips for females interested in a healthy and happy social life? How about other women who have been there, done that, and brought home the t-shirt?

Amanda is a 34-year-old professional woman, and she shares her most successful dating advice for women: don’t talk about your ex when you’re on a date with a new man. “That’s the kiss of death,” Amanda quipped. “Guys don’t want to hear about your old boyfriend or ex-husband. That tends to make them think you’re still hung up on that guy, and it scares them away really quickly. If you want to end a date early, just starting going on and on about your ex”.

Lisa is a “twenty something” college student who says that one of the worst things you can do is fail to take a compliment. “Most guys are going to go out of their way to compliment you on a date. When he does, accept his compliment graciously,” she offered. “Don’t go on and on about how you don’t deserve it, that only makes the guy feel like he wasted his time. Instead, a simple ‘thank you’ is all that’s necessary. I learned that one the hard way, it took me a long time to get over that problem”.

More dating advice for women comes from LaShon, a 28-year-old single mother. “Be yourself,” LaShon said. “What good does it do to put on a front? Either he likes you for who you are or he doesn’t. And that means if you have kids, don’t lie and say you don’t. If you keep talking to him he’s going to find out in time anyhow, so why bother starting off with a lie?”

Finally, Eve is a widowed woman who recently re-entered the dating scene after a 19-year marriage. Her dating advice for women is to keep it simple. “You’ve always got to be positive, even though circumstances in your life may have gone against you recently,” Eve advised. “Be upbeat, men don’t like to spend time with a woman who constantly has negative things to say. In time, you just become too much of a downer for a man to want to continue to see you”.

Dating isn’t easy, particularly these days when there are so many pressing demands on a woman’s time. That’s why it is important to listen to the dating advice for women that comes directly from other women who have learned the hard lessons in their social relationships. Be positive, be yourself, learn to accept compliments graciously, and make sure not to dwell on past relationships. Those are the things that females themselves say make up the most successful dating advice for women.

Summer gothic love

The summer is already here and it is your time to find your new gothic love. But first, why the summer time is the perfect chance for new love life? First and foremost in this season most of the people are going out of the house so you can meet lots of new gothic people that where closed behinds heavy and cold doors in the winter. Second it is the nature of life to fall in love in the summer it also happened in the animal kingdom and whether we like it or not we are a part of nature.

Being a gothic person in the summer is not an easy job. How can you continue being cold and dark when all your surrounding and especially the weather is so hot, bright and shinny? The good news is that you are not a lone in these situations. There are lots of gothic people like you that are looking of new love especially in the summer time. You can find most of them at online dating sites. Now most of the dates – whether they are gothic or not are in the nights – when it is less hot and you can continue wearing long gothic clothes. But the best of it you can keep merging with the darkness and the unknown. Meaning – continue to be a true gothic person.

Gothic love When you plan your gothic summer include a new adventure in it. There is a reason why we have four seasons in a year – we need a small change every few months otherwise we just feel hopeless, bored and stuck in the same place. So when you get the chance start meeting new gothic people you can never known to where it will take you. And who knows? Why be you will end up find you true gothic love in this summer.